12 thoughts on “The Perfect Poly Person

  1. This was well written. I guess the thing a poly newbie should keep in mind that being poly really isn’t all that different from being monogamous; you can have a lot of the same problems and issues but multiplied. And it’s not an easy concept to grasp because, as I learned (the hard way) that you have to unlearn a lot of stuff so you can learn more new stuff about love, sex, and relationships. If you’re not a good communicator, well, learn quickly; if you don’t have very good problem solving and conflict resolution skills, time to cram like never before because you will need these big time. And just like in a monogamous relationship, if you’re not willing to put in the work necessary for your poly relationships to grow and flourish, well, guess what’s gonna happen?

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